Thread: Do people not date anymore?!

A lot of ppl are dating more. I have to say though that the experience you went through is unacceptable. Sharing the expense is cool but having to pay for the whole meal because he need his money for drinking...big no no.

I agree that men have more rested on their shoulder now a days because the role between men & women..if not reverse..are pretty much at the same level. So men..you should not stress out about having to be the "man" during the date. Bills can be split (or take turns), you don't have to worry about earning more money or having a higher education, you don't have to be the first to make the move

Sonya...don't be discouraged by your past two dates. There's a soul mate for everyone out there. Some of us just happen to met ours sooner than other..that's all.

i wouldn't want a guy to spend on me the first or second date becuz nothing is official. i can't just spend his money then kick him out if thing doesn't work out. but one everything work out and we're officially a couple then i'll tell him to pay for certain stuff, but not all. hehhee den again i don't really lyk eating expensive meal. McD's will be fine..LoL eat there like everyday.

But yeah, pplz still date now-a-day. more than b4 lyk pplz post earlier.

Hey, Poke..u'r not alone.. i have never gone on a date either. hehe but i think i'm too picky.

cool m not lonely any more . yes you are girl should be very picky with who u date for me guy hmm even not picky still no one interest :'-(

Whaa? ya mean you don't need alot of money. girls (99.9% of them)
these days are all about money anything different is just lying to oneself( the other 0.1% are extremely rare its like finding a 4 leaf clover ).

learning to cook doesn't impressive ladies anymore. -_-

Originally Posted by slapp addict

you don't need to have a lot of money when you are courting some one... and plus there are a lot of nice restaurants out there where you can go and spend as much as you would at a fast food restaurants... and here's a tip for guys that doesn't have a lot of money... learn how to cook, that's a good way to empress the ladies...

Originally Posted by Teknoman

Whaa? ya mean you don't need alot of money. girls (99.9% of them)
these days are all about money anything different is just lying to oneself( the other 0.1% are extremely rare its like finding a 4 leaf clover ).

learning to cook doesn't impressive ladies anymore. -_-

well, i guess i'm the .01% becuz i hate when guys think they have to pay for everything..actually not guess guys..female too. y i say i'm the .01% you're talking about is becuz i've never date and also when a guy ask me out i go out as friends and i refuse for anyone to pay for me. i work since i was 16 becuz i hate the thought of depending on pplz when i go out. if i want sumthing, i get it myself. and i do know why u may think that way cuz lots of my female friends think i'm crazy but they do respect that. us girls don't always expect the guys to pay all the time but guys think so and so the girls just go along. i rarely go out but when i do, 90% of the tym it's my treat cuz i always hang out w/ my little cousins. hehe

btw, yeah.. cooking doesn't impress me. if i were to lyk sum1 it's not becuz he can cook. as long as the feeling in there.

Reason why i said 99.9% is because well think of it. Money makes the world go around. You can't live on love. Woman wants a man that works not a bum. If you are someone that likes a bum that leeches off you then there's something wrong with you.

Money is survival.

It is absolute power.

and technically


i do know 99.9% of all women on the planet. Cause overrall there human and I understand there needs and wants.

and what they need is overall survival and to reproduce and that requires money. Love is superficial.

Originally Posted by AdvancedAngel

lol 99.9% ? I think that's a lot too much tekno, if you knew 99.9% of the girls in the world then it would actually be an accurate statement. But I mean your sort of right and sort of wrong, money does resolve around the world and pretty much almost everything has to do with money, but not every girl in the world is like what your saying right now. You might be right on the cook doesn't impress ladies anymore but it does come in handy to aleast learn to cook in the first place.